Tuesday, April 28, 2009
Saturday, April 18, 2009
This post is gonna be rather sentimental than the usual ones.
A couple of days ago, I had a tiny argument with somebody through text messages. What I could not understand is how can that person say something so unreasonable and didn't make sense to me. Maybe I had misinterpreted it the wrong way. I really don't know.
I did not show much anger in my reply (didn't use exclamation marks and caps), but more to questioning 'why' and 'how can'. Deep inside I was actually very uncomfortable and my perception towards that someone changed, for the worse.
Somehow or rather, I think that person could sense that I was not very pleased or either someone else told her because today that person texted me to apologize.
It's funny how a simple 'sorry' can make me feel so much better about the whole incident.
That person claimed that frustration was kicking in therefore leading to such a message.
Another example was worse. This certain someone rang me up out of the blue and semi-yelled at me about why did I spread such rumours. I was soooo confused I did not know what she was talking about and then I told that person to chill (when I was actually getting angry myself for getting yelled at for no reason). Few minutes later, that person texted and apologized profusely in a row for throwing a fit and explained what ticked that person off.
Again, when 'sorry' was mentioned, I myself felt better and calmed down.
I don't know if you guys get what I'm trying to say. I guess I'm the kind of person who will wait for a 'sorry' (and for that person to actually mean it) when I'm damn sure I did not do anything wrong.
Pastor used to preach saying 'Oh, do not wait for that person to say sorry then only forgive. Just forgive that person anyhow.'
I am trying my very best to pick up that attitude.
As for now, although sorry seems to be the hardest word, it definitely plays a great impact on forgiveness and mending a relationship.
Tuesday, April 14, 2009
Just a simple shoutout to a person who can piss me off and make me laugh at the same time.
Happy Birthday annoying, old lady!
Wah, see. So carourfull. Nice right. I hope that as you grow older, your level of maturity grows as well.
Stop playing Pet Society already!
I also hope
your skin won't sag so fast you'll find a job soon after you graduate this year and not bum around in the house or boss me around. :)
This is my revenge to you for putting up stupid pictures of me everytime. Not that I don't look silly here, but at least you're doing it too.
Nah, here's a more decent picture of us!
Oh crap, I think papa's gonna scold me for staying up. I hear him coughing. I better go. Please pray harder if you want us to pay you a visit later at night.
Love you! xoxo